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    Valentine's Day finds a niche in Islamic Iran

    Iran may reject Western influences, but Valentine's Day has become a growing phenomenon thanks to the romantically minded youth of the Islamic state's affluent classes.

    Although the ruling clerics and hardline politicians have been waging a campaign against what they call "decadent" cultural imports, the Christian day dedicated to amorous displays has so far survived.

    Part of the reason could be the sheer number of young adults in the country: 60 percent of the 75 million-strong population is under 30, and one Iranian in three is aged 15 to 30.

    With many of them unmarried, and with bars, clubs and mixed parties all banned under the country's strict laws, Valentine's Day is increasingly seen as a tolerated courting opportunity -- one whose commercial side is much appreciated by Iranian retailers.

    Several shopkeepers in Tehran told AFP that demand for rose bouquets, sentimental cards with the English word "love", chocolate, perfume and even teddy bears was strong, adding to a growing trend of recent years.

    The owner of one Italian restaurant, who asked not to be identified, said his establishment was booked up well in advance by couples.

    Elmira, a 24-year-old architecture graduate in the capital who declined to give her last name, said most of those participating in the annual romantic ritual were young people from the middle and upper classes.

    "The usual routine each year is an exchange of gifts and then going out for dinner," she said.

    Valentine's Day "used to be huge for me," she said, but now she was looking for something more meaningful. "Silly traditions do not really matter if there are no feelings involved."

    There are signs, however, that the authorities' patience with the day is wearing thin.

    Last year, officials banned the production and sale of Valentine's Day items. Conservatives insist there is no room for such immodest declarations in devout Islamic culture.

    They have become alarmed at the rapid decline in the number of marriages in recent years, blaming the trend on Western superficiality.

    Nationalistic Iranians prefer to celebrate their love on Mehregan, a pre-Islamic and little-observed festival in October that honours Mithra, the ancient Persian goddess of love.

    But so far at least, young Iranian couples are still able to take part in Valentine's Day.

    Saba, an 18-year-old graphics student in the northeast holy city of Mashhad, said that for her, the day was not at all about adopting a Christian calendar but rather because "I would love to receive gifts and chocolate."

    She added though that she thought it safer to attend a private party in a home than risk a restaurant or other public place which could attract unwanted attention from Iran's morality police, who enforce Islamic-based codes on dress and behaviour.

    "Even though we would not be doing anything un-Islamic in restaurants or cafes, there are not many places in our city to hang out on Valentine's (Day) and be safe," she said.

    Even the home option is not without risk. Parties are regularly raided by the police and young Iranians consuming alcohol or dancing are arrested.

    Meysam, a home appliances store owner in his early 30s, said he had plans to take his girlfriend out -- but for reasons that were not related to Valentine's Day.

    "I love to have fun but I also need to do this to take my mind off (the fact) that business is just awful these days," he said.

    He said he did not know what the future holds for his small business because of the continuing devaluation of Iran's currency, the rial, and added restrictions on importing goods from the United Arab Emirates and China.

    Recent economic sanctions adopted by the United States against Iran's financial system have raised major hurdles to the way Iranian companies conduct their business, and impacted the import of goods into the country.

     

    9 comments

    • Poya  •  Tehran, Iran  •  3 months ago
      روز مهرگان بر عشاق مبارک. کاش ولیتانیها همی روزها رو مهر ورزی میکردند. واینهمه قهر و طلاق و سکه بگیر نبود.
    • sara  •  Tehran, Iran  •  3 months ago
      Did u know that valentines day at firs was for iranian people and the name of this name had beenسپندار مزدا. but unfortunetly we lost everything we had!
      • Marshal 3 months ago
        What havent we lost sweetie?
    • sama  •  3 months ago
      BREAKING NEWS !!!
      Iran's gift for the Valentine's Day !!!
      Oliver Stone's son converts to Islam in Iran
      Say congratulations to him:
      http://en-maktoob.news.yahoo.com/oliver-stones-son-converts-islam-iran-140350945.html
    • Find  •  Kuwait City, Kuwait  •  3 months ago
      shia, specially in iran, can have "leagal" relationships through what they call "mutaa" marriage for any period of time, even for one hour, and even with a married partner..and the funny thing is that they believe if they do so, they get rewarded from God, therefore every hour in thier stupid life is "valintine hour", and this has nothing to do with islam
      • tarat 3 months ago
        are u sure?what a big lie!!!!!!!!!!!!with married partner?????!!!!!!! i think u are explaining yourself...mutaa is for some special situations and its not about all around iran...we believe that its better to have a relation in muslim way instead of having sex with your boy friend without parents let..and its about women who lose their husband and not about all of them too...and u should know that i dont know any body around me that do mutaa...some bodies d some thing and u cant tell that all iranians are like this...u should read more books and know more about islam in iran....shame on u..in iran shia and sunni are brothers and u wanna destroy it..
      • Sibeveih 3 months ago
        you dont know shia at all. you just heard some nonesence from others. we both are muslim. why you dont want to understand who is your enemy???????
    • Mahnaz  •  Tehran, Iran  •  3 months ago
      My Iranian friends
      We're always sad. We should always think we are dying. Why
      This is because Iran's ruling class. So we should always remember. A world where they are. That rule. If we do give in this world against them. They come in retaliation for it. They are really like Al and his friends. That God only to rule on human development and imposed
      Friends go. And remember his love of flowers on the walls and paint.
    • Mojtaba  •  Tehran, Iran  •  3 months ago
      كاش توي تقويم ايران روزي بود به نام روز عشق تا ديگه كلمه ي ولنتاين فيلتر نميشد
      • Naser 3 months ago
        هموطن عزیز، ما ایرانیا با فرهنگ 2500 ساله چیزی رو که شما دنبالشی رو داریم
        تعجب میکنم چرا شما و کسانی که پست شما رو تأیید کردند، این موضوع رو نمیدونید که 29 بهمن هرسال جشن سپندارمذگان، روز عشق مال ماست
        این 2 معنی داره: اول اینکه ما 2500سال پیش به معنای واقعی عشق اهمیت میدادیم
        دوم اینکه تهاجم فرهنگی یعنی همین! جوونای ما رو از تاریخ مملکتشون دور نگه میداره
        مرگ بر آمریکا
        مرگ بر اسرائیل
        مرگ بر ضد ولایت فقیه
        نابود باد تهاجم فرهنگی
        به کوری چشم دیگر شیطان ما تسلیم هیچ تحریمی نمیشیم
        پس 29 بهمن واسه عشقت همه کار بکن
        http://fa.wikipedia.org/wiki/%D8%B3%D9%BE%D9%86%D8%AF%D8%A7%D8%B1%D9%85%D8%B0%DA%AF%D8%A7%D9%86
        پس به وب بالا یه سر بزنید
      • Mojtaba 3 months ago
        برادر من! ماهم ايراني هستيم و همه ي چيزايي رو كه شما ميگيد الان كمتر ايراني پيدا ميشه كه ندونه.درد ما اينه كه چرا اين روز در تقويم ايران جاي داده نميشه تا به قول شما دچار تهاجم فرهنگي نشيم؟
        راستي ولايت فقيه ميدونه كه شما عاشقي!!!!؟؟؟
    • hossein  •  3 months ago
      IRAN
      www.pcrooz.ir
    • NAVID TAKFAZ 0 2 1  •  Tehran, Iran  •  3 months ago
      First Persian Gulf, not the Gulf ...

      I am a Zoroastrian. And Muslim love my country. Iran is a civilized country we had a king named Cyrus, who was a righteous person. Human Rights was written several hundred years ago by the Iranians.

      It is funny to me that the countries on the basis of civilization and are Freemasons do for us to decide.

      Pars country. Iran's great civilization Cyrus. We are not afraid of anything.

      Bomb is for poor people. We're Aryan
      We do not Qatar and Dubai. We do not weakly
      The name of god. The name of freedom. The name of Zoroaster. The name Cyrus.

      ((We are not Arabs. We're Aryan))
    • hossein  •  3 months ago
      جانم فدای رهبر
      سلام خوشحال میشم یه سر بزنید
      WWW.PCROOZ.IR