A Fine Balance

Five common situations that usurp your life and ways to emerge stronger.

Striving hard to make your two lives (work and family) co-exist peacefully is a reality for most of us. And the pursuit of this elusive balance can make 24 hours seem too short. Planning ahead helps, but don't hesitate to articulate your problem when you need to be heard. The Morning Rush Do you find yourself scrambling from the moment you wake up till the time you leave for work? Well, it's time to get more organised. Make sure you are through with some of the essential errands the night before. Ask your spouse to pitch in. Academic Needs of your Child Make a routine for him every day and ensure that he is following it.

Manage your work well so that you can squeeze in an hour every evening to discuss his day. Help him identify his strengths and work on his weaknesses. Also, do not forget to reward him if he completes the task successfully. Work Travel Demands If your work needs a lot of travelling, consider the options of video conferencing and Skype calls. Accept travel when it is absolutely important but also learn to say 'no' when it is not. At the same time, do not overlook the fact that it gives you a better professional exposure and helps your kids to be self-sufficient. Time with your Spouse Make your time with your spouse pleasurable. Find time for relaxed conversation, share the events of the day, or watch a film together. Indulge in activities that you both enjoy. Plan weekend breaks and holidays in advance. Me-Time Connect with yourself and help your family realise this is essential for you. Recall your dreams and figure out how you can indulge in your passions even if for a short time. Explore part-time or work-from-home options if you think cutting back on the pace.